新加坡幼儿园虐童

我昨天看了那老师咋能下得去手，得使多大劲才能把三岁娃的耳朵拧成这样，多大仇恨啊，她还自己也有孩子。
人渣，希望police曝光这人，让她以后都干不了幼师教师行业

眼哥也报道了但是他居然不报幼儿园名字。。
太不厚道了

看了评论 居然有不少类似事件最后大都是不了了之 小孩转学

facebook翻翻评论就知道了xmlzj

评论太多了，没看完有人说是在AMK,不知道是不是真的

还是没看到幼儿园的名字希望这样的案件警方可以好好受理不要随便忽悠过去 作为父母看这种新闻真的很心痛

同情家长和孩子希望政府一查到底，对肇事者严惩

真变态啊，咋对天真可爱的娃下得去手啊

AMK church cc，start with B搜搜就有啦。
妈妈是怕get into legal trouble, 才没有曝光学校名字的。

我也是facebook 评论看的真假不知哈

如果我是妈妈我会追究到那个老师永远不能再做老师！

新加坡每次发生幼儿园虐童的事件cctv都是很难调出来看。只能说天下乌鸦一般黑。
如果真的碰上这样的事情，我是绝对会追究到底的。

不知道诸位妈妈有没有想过假如自己的孩子被虐后，
你们怎么做，怎么应付不负责的学校

你就知道可爱的娃不是带着天使面具的魔鬼？辩证一些看问题。

如果这个幼儿园每个孩子都被虐过，我真的无话可说。

这次幼儿园的回复好像是没有CCTV吧

幼儿园的小孩儿能做啥？这老师心里有问题

希望这件事情可以持续发酵校方应该给家长一个合理的解释

如此没有爱心的老师如何为人师表的

有的而且幼儿园拒绝提供

政府幼儿园还是私立幼儿园？觉得这边幼儿园老师素质实在是很一般（用“很一般”来形容已经是宽容了），主要原因可能是工资太低。。请不到什么有素质的人

我记得MF以前有一起是老师拎孩子 导致孩子胳膊骨折据说视频曝光后MFS全线cctv都撤了
最大的franchise都这样 老百姓还能说啥？

三岁孩子是魔鬼的只在恐怖片里见过再不乖也轮不到老师这样体罚虐待！

这个应该已经报警了警察出面要cctv都可以拒给？

这个事件告诉我们 有一个有文采的妈妈说多么重要！这位妈妈等了一个月没有任何回复，长文po在facebook，第二天就报纸头条。
评论里其他类似事件 都是不了了之的。
所以最快最有效的办法就是找媒体？
不然就是被踢皮球 等气消了就算了。

后续发展我也不太清楚貌似孩子的妈妈还没有看到视频。

再魔鬼的娃，也不能如此这般被对待吧

太多类似的事情让我感觉新加坡真的是比较维护机构商户学校等的利益相比之下，民众个人利益被摆在很低的位置。
我孩子的学校也是如此，出台了一系列所谓的“safety improvement policy"，基本的意思就是家长不允许踏进学校一步，找老师谈话也要预约，电话没有人接消息没有及时回复都是正常的。我心里一万个cnm跑过。
不是看在孩子已经习惯这个学校的份上真的想立刻转学。

孩子也是人，也有人权。老师以强欺弱就是错误的。孩子在学校能干什么伤天害理的事情。
即使是杀人放火抢劫的罪犯，在正式判刑前法律也是规定不可以随便体罚。

层主见过三岁娃吗三岁娃再怎么熊，又能魔鬼到什么程度？他们的破坏力实在有限。
退一万步讲，即使是魔鬼娃，也绝对不是成年人下狠手的理由，打电话给家长告状让拎回去都可以。

看了全文和部分回复我觉得最让人担心的是，在发到social media 之前，警察，幼儿园，ECDA的做法都让这位妈妈心寒。没办法才在facebook 上发文，然后突然本来说警方查案时候无法帮忙的ECDA也联系了这个妈妈，警方也有了反应...

呃，为啥我觉得我去的childcare老师还行呢尤其是中文老师，是请的国内的幼教大学生，年轻的老师都还挺有爱心....

薪水低不代表做的人都没素质啊...人渣那个行业都有的

文采不好的打给报社 然后请律师发律师函？等了一个月实在是太久了，因为CCTV的存储‘可能’ 刚好就被新的录像‘覆盖’了。

不懂层主的意思啊你指老师这么做是有原因的？可以被理解的？
我认为幼儿园和受过专业训练的老师应该有准备应付所有你口中的“魔鬼”吧。
文中孩子已经指认了当日拧她耳朵的老师了。哪天你的孩子被虐了，你还能这么淡定的说，谁知道你自己的孩子是不是带着天使的魔鬼，你还能冷静辩证的看问题，我才真的无话可说。

facebook全文Dear all,

I appreciate it if you could take some time to read this post. It’s a long post as I’m seeking advice.

I’m writing this with a heavy heart. I had not expected this to happen to me despite multiple abuse cases that took place in Singapore in the past.

This is how it happened in detail:

On 14th Feb 2018, I sent my 3-year-old daughter to school in the morning. Early in the morning, I got her dressed and tied up her hair, before sending her to school while she was perfectly normal and happy.

However, when my husband picked my daughter up from her preschool, on the way home, he sensed that something was not right with my girl’s mood, so he parked his car and turn around; only to see that something very unusual and totally unexpected had happened to her ear. Her messy hair covered part of the ear and she was sweaty after a whole day in school but what he saw was a horrific bruise on the top of her ear. When they reached home, my hubby asked me to check what had happened to her ear and to my horror, her ear was badly bruised to such an extent that it was swelling badly. My heart bled and when I asked my daughter about what had happened, she lost control and just broke down into tears and cried.

I called the school to ask what had happened in school and none of the teachers could provide me with a recount of any incident in the school that might have caused the bruise. The form teacher said that it was a mystery.

I informed the school that I would be sending my daughter to a PD to check what had happened and how bad the injury was. Long story short, the PD, upon seeing my girl’s ear, was shocked too. He diagnosed it as a form of traumatic bruising that was caused by the exertion of great intentional force, and not a result of insect bites or drug allergies.

I followed up by informing my daughter's preschool principal about the PD's diagnosis and proceeded to lodge a police report. After the police report, I called to update my daughter's form teacher and she sounded utterly surprised and shocked that I had reported the incident to the police. The police requested that I returned to the station last week to give a detailed report after my daughter has calmed down a little and would be able to recount the incident better. She then told the police officer the exact teacher who pinched and twisted her ear.

On the 15th February (Chinese New Year Eve), I sent my girl to KKH for a re-diagnosis and second opinion and it was classified as a “non-accidental injury” that was suspected to be inflicted by a teacher. I went to the preschool to seek assistance, but did not expect to be met with loads of excuses and indifference by the supervisor of the school. Essentially, his message to me is all my daughter's teachers are from the church affiliated to the preschool (implying that they are Christians), and that he fully believes and trusts that none of his teachers would abuse a child to such an extent.

I’m writing here to ask for help from fellow parents on how should I handle this. It has been a rocky 3+ weeks, yet I still do not have any satisfactory answers. Ever since this incident, every night, my girl would wake up suddenly from her nightmares, crying out, “I’m scared, I’m sorry, please, stop, pain!” She has been shouting out her form teacher’s name too. This has been going on every night for the past few weeks, and it pains me deeply to see my daughter in such trauma. She is tormented day after day by the incident and her behaviour has even undergone drastic changes. She is now very temperamental and bursts into rage or tears at times, sometimes even out of the blue for no apparent reason.

Furthermore, my husband is still recovering from a stroke that he suffered in last December, so our family of five are facing financial difficulties; yet I still have to seek help from a psychiatrist and a counsellor for my daughter. They have told me that my daughter is indeed traumatised badly. As a mother, seeing my daughter suffer day by day renders my heart to shreds and it puts a heavy strain on me emotionally and physically. The psychiatrist even told me that I am experiencing acute stress reactions from my constant worry and fear over my daughter's well-being.

I’m extremely stressed and exasperated by the inefficiency of the police, disappointed with the preschool that it’s not taking any responsibility or action to solve this case. In fact, the preschool is still allowing the suspected teacher to continue teaching while risking the safety of many other young children under her care.

I have since reported the matter to ECDA and even a MP. ECDA has commented that as this is a police case, they could only determine their next course of action pending the outcome of the police's investigation. The police has reverted that they can’t reveal any CCTV footage to me. Neither did they do anything to reassure me that the investigation is progressing well, leaving me in the dark and constant fear day after day.

As a mother, why can’t I even have the right to know what had happened to my daughter in her preschool??!! Till date, she is still suffering from trauma and I have no way of knowing what exactly had happened in the school. What can possibly cause a teacher (who is a mother of a young child herself and has been in the school for at least 10 years) to do this to a young child of 3 years old. We were told she was on leave for more than a year and only just came back to work this year. Nothing could a 3-year-old child do to warrant such an intense and painful punishment, causing her to bear an intense hatred and fear of her preschool and teacher. It has been more than 3 weeks and my daughter’s ear still has not healed completely. There is still a faint bruise mark. Can anyone imagine how bad her injury was and how much force the teacher had inflicted? I’m certain that this incident had happened in her preschool, for my daughter is petrified of the preschool and teacher now, yet the preschool claims that they have no idea whatsoever how the incident had occurred! This is so far fetched and ridiculous! How can it be that the teachers have no clue about the incident? I did not receive any calls and notifications about her injury at all. My daughter should have been crying at a certain point, yet none of her teachers took notice?

How could I find peace when besides being denied access to all CCTV footages (by the preschool and police), I have also not been receiving any meaningful updates regarding this "mysterious" case? The supervisor himself said there are a lot of blind spots in the school which the CCTVs could not capture and hence the CCTVs may not have recorded the incident on footage. The classrooms and some parts of the school do not have any CCTVs. He cited the reason that the installation of CCTVs is not a requirement by ECDA and hence it is not compulsory for them to have CCTVs in class. The supervisor added that ECDA said CCTVs are not meant to be used to keep an eye on teachers and students, but to be used as safety measures against strangers entering the school premise. How absurd! Surely the school could have been more responsible and placed CCTVs in the classrooms so as to be able to account for their students at all times. Children are very susceptible to injury, so CCTVs would allow the school to keep track of their students, and to be able to give an accurate account to their parents should any incident take place in the school.

I’m slipping into depression now. I tried to be strong and cope with my hubby’s acute stroke since end of last year. However, seeing my daughter suffer everyday has taken a serious toll on me. All my family members are going through a difficult time now, yet we can't have the peace of mind or reassurance from the preschool and police. After the incident, my daughter has been so badly traumatised that going to school seems to be an issue. She has since stopped attending that preschool.

Back home, when I was reading story books to her, she would suddenly say that her teacher is "the evil wolf” in the story of the Three Little Pigs and that she was the “wicked queen” in Snow White or that her soft toys would help to protect her from her evil teacher. Even when she heard minor renovation noise from my neighbour's flat, she would say that it was the sound of her teacher coming to pull her ear once again and she would break into tears!
I seriously can’t take it anymore and I’m at my wit's end. I’m very desperate to seek advice on what I can do for my daughter, hence I am resorting to this platform for advice so that I can have a closure on this. I can’t help my daughter when I have no idea what had taken place and why would the teacher do this to her. Every time we mentioned her form teacher's name, she would shiver in fear and break into tears. Everyone of us is a parent here, surely you will be able to empathise with me and understand the pain I’m going through now. I want to take seek justice against the teacher for causing and inflicting such harm to my young girl, yet the irresponsible school management appears indifferent and simply shows no compassion with regards to this matter. What can I do? Could someone please advise me?

文中有提到cctv的问题新加坡实在很让人失望。

这里还有一个专业性的问题专业的老师受过的训练不一样，知道在各种状况下如何处理问题。
举个简单的例子，孩子哭闹的时候，应该怎么做， 要检查哪些东西，如何转移孩子的注意力，而不是说“不准哭”之类。专业的有经验的老师肯定会贵一些，薪水低请到的人相对就没有那么专业。

家长到底有没有权利看CCTV我google了下，没找到啥有用的东西。。。。看看论坛有没有大神可以科普下。。。

之前还有个孩子全身淤青的疑似虐童事件。。不了了之了

对啊那个把小孩弄成骨折的马来老师 到底后来怎么样了？

一直没看到后续

新加坡幼儿园虐童看了很心痛 希望事件持续发酵 政府可以有所作为！！！
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好吧是她妈自己拧的然后嫁祸幼儿园，为了.....为了.....当网红呢

来说一说什么样的意外
才会把耳朵弄成这样？
姐姐侧躺让弟弟捶打耳朵？用硬物打？
跟弟弟闹着玩看谁的耳朵能360度拧？
脑补无限

小概率事件而已不要放在心上，习惯就好了，比国内还是强很多的，国内更不放心，这里水好，空气好，对小孩发展很有利。

就是阳光太毒不大适合孩子室外活动：近视眼一大波

从成才的概率上来说在坡上，华人小孩成才概率，和国内小孩成才概率，哪个高呢

这是一个好问题那么何谓成才呢？又回到了见仁见智的角度

真希望知道真相啊毕竟最无辜的是这个三岁的小女孩。
读了一些其他的后续，有提到说这个小孩的爸爸五十多了，去年十二月中风，现在在家休养，家里还有两个年龄很大的哥哥（十八岁~）。然后这个妈妈的fb图像也看起来相当年轻。

希望真相大白。

真相还是不知道的好有空可以看看日剧legal high，这个问题在legal high里讨论的很清楚

家里有三岁的女儿对这位妈妈的愤怒感同身受，期待真相。
如果有责任人，希望得到应有的惩戒

你用了什么手段让揭露你丑恶嘴脸的好几个帖子都被删除了啊还好意思提喷你的没有高级id？哪个高级id敢得罪你这种心黑笑面虎？